Better Together: The Benefits of Shared Senior Housing

Moving into a retirement or senior living community marks a fresh start for many seniors. It offers a more convenient lifestyle along with opportunities for social connection and, if needed, personalized care. But for those moving in alone—whether by choice or after the loss of a spouse—the transition can sometimes feel daunting or lonely.

A growing trend in senior living is shared housing—simply put, roommates. Senior living marketing professionals say more residents are embracing the idea, finding joy, companionship and even daily entertainment in sharing their space at this stage of life.

It’s no surprise, given the many financial, emotional, social and physical benefits that studies show come with having a roommate. And, as the saying goes, “Shared space, shared stories, shared laughter—roommates turn a house into a home.”

Takeaways:

• Shared housing makes senior living more affordable, potentially opening doors to the retirement destinations you’ve been dreaming of.
• Roommates reduce loneliness and boost overall well-being by providing daily companionship and inspiration.
• Shared housing for seniors comes in many options – one right for you.
• A smooth adjustment to shared senior housing starts with setting boundaries and expectations for the new space.

Why Are So Many Retirees Embracing Shared Senior Living?

Shared housing for seniors offers more than just a place to live—it offers a lifestyle that supports well-being, financial security and lasting friendships. Here’s a look at some of the many benefits of shared living and why it’s growing in popularity:

Financial Savings

Sharing a living space can significantly reduce costs. In addition to sharing rent, roommates can split household expenses like utilities, internet, streaming services, groceries and other costs, freeing up funds for other activities, healthcare or personal interests. For many, these cost savings allow them to maintain a higher standard of living without financial strain.

Companionship and Connection

Social isolation is a common worry for older adults, particularly those who have lost a spouse or are transitioning to a new community. A roommate provides built-in companionship. You’ll always have someone to share meals with, a partner to join you in activities and a friend to share new adventures with. The daily companionship and connection a roommate provides can go a long way in reducing (eliminating) feelings of loneliness and contributing to a fulfilling, fun retirement lifestyle.

Added Support and Safety For Peace of Mind

Having a roommate means having someone in your corner. Whether it’s a gentle reminder to take medication, lending an empathetic ear or simply having someone to share special moments with, a roommate is built-in support. Plus, knowing there’s someone close by brings peace of mind, especially in the event of an emergency.

Inspiring Each Other to Stay Active

A roommate can be a great source of encouragement, making it easier—and more fun—to stay active and engaged. Whether it’s joining community events, taking a walk or exploring new hobbies, having a companion by your side helps motivate you to stay active. Senior living communities offer a variety of wellness programs, social gatherings and entertainment … and everything feels a little more special when shared with a friend.

The Most Common Types of Shared Housing for Seniors

• Semi-Private Residences: Common in assisted living and memory care communities, a semi-private residence is like a small apartment with private bedrooms and bathrooms and shared living spaces like kitchens and living areas.
• Shared Apartments: Typically larger than the semi-private residences found in supportive living communities, shared apartments are found in many independent living communities. Apartments come in a variety of floorplans and have two or more bedrooms with shared living areas and kitchens. They may also have one, two, or more bathrooms.
• Senior Co-Housing: A less common option, senior co-housing is a home-like setup where a small group of seniors share a residence, often with private or semi-private bedrooms and communal spaces.

How to Ensure a Successful Partnership – And Lasting Friendship.

A roommate can make a place truly feel like home, but sharing space also comes with challenges. Open communication, a little compromise and a few simple strategies, can go a long way in creating a comfortable and enjoyable living arrangement. Here are some helpful tips to make shared senior living smooth and rewarding:

• Establish Clear Expectations – Discuss and agree on shared responsibilities. Setting ground rules early on can prevent misunderstandings and hard feelings.
• Respect Privacy – Everyone needs personal space now and then. Create designated areas where you can unwind and enjoy quiet alone time. Remember that simple gestures, like knocking before entering and being mindful of each other’s routines, will help maintain a sense of respect and balance.
• Open and Respectful Communication – Disagreements are bound to happen. When they do, address issues directly and calmly. Try using “I” statements to express feelings without sounding accusatory. For example, “I feel frustrated when the dishes aren’t cleaned” is more constructive than “You never clean up.”
• Compromise and Flexibility – Be willing to accommodate each other’s habits and preferences. If one of you is an early riser and the other a night owl, agree on established quiet hours to minimize disruptions.
• Talk With Community Staff
  Senior living staff can help make the transition to shared living seamless. From matching compatible roommates to promoting open communication, the staff can provide guidance on how to set boundaries and create personal space to ensure a positive living environment and rewarding senior living experience.

Life is Better With Friends

As the saying goes … “Friends (and roommates) can make everything in life seem better. They can make you laugh a little louder, smile a little brighter and live a little better.” Senior living professionals, residents and families agree. Hear some of their stories as you consider your options.

Find Community

Whether you’re seeking senior living for yourself or with a roommate, community life enhances life in so many ways. Find a community right for you.

Where You Live Matters

Where You Live Matters is powered by the American Seniors Housing Association (ASHA), a respected voice in the senior housing industry. ASHA primarily focuses on legislative and regulatory advocacy, research and educational opportunities and networking for senior living executives, so they can better understand the needs of older adults across the country.